Countdown to San Diego Pride Festival Opening!

July 20-21, 2024

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Leather Realm Workshops

Each year the Leather Realm offers a variety of workshops taught by members of the Community. Topics change but areas of focus are Leather, Kink, BDSM, Diversity, Safety, Consent, Inclusivity and Alternative Relationship Styles.  We believe that it is through education that we can best help eradicate the stereotypical misconceptions about alternative lifestyles and insure every individual has access to the information they need for a safe, consensual and fulfilling experience.


July 20, 2024

Saturday Workshops


1:00 pm

Clips, Clamps, and Other Pinchers with Officer Wes (He/Him) - Tent 1

2:00 pm

Consent Matters with Flog and Flow (He/Him) - Tent 2

3:00 pm

Single-Tail Whips with Travis (He/Him)- Tent 1

4:00 pm

Kinky People of Color Panel Discussion with Sereana (She/Her) - Tent 2

5:00 pm

Getting All Tied Up (ATU) with SirKnottyDan (He/Him) - Tent 1

6:00 pm

Kink, Polyamory, and Other Adventures in Non-Monogamy Panel Discussion - Tent 2

July 21, 2024

Sunday Workshops


12:00 am

Flogging 101 with Eris (She/Her) - Tent 1

1:00 pm

Leather History with Mark Holmes (He/Him) - Tent 2

2:00 pm

Erotic Shaving with Naria (He/Him) - Tent 1

3:00 pm

Pet Play 101 with SANPAH (San Diego Pets and Handlers) - Tent 2

4:00 pm

Rough Body Play with Smoke (He/Him) - Tent 1

5:00 pm

Celebrating Trans Folx Panel Discussion with Mita (They/Them) - Tent 2

2022 Local Clubs

All Tied Up San Diego

We bring a unique community offering  interactive hybrid-online/in-person educational programs that helps progressive, open-minded individuals, and couples increase connection and communication, while learning how to tie or be tied.

CAPE - Caregiver & Age Player Events

We are a group based in San Diego, California that is dedicated to discussing, creating, and promoting all CG/l events for those interested in CG/l related activities. All Ageplayers, Diaper Lovers, Littles, Middles, Bigs, boys, girls, enbies, Caregivers, Mommies, Daddies, Aunties, Uncles, etc... with a genuine interest are welcome.

Club X San Diego

We are a pansexual fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community. Club X also meets monthly for educational workshops and demonstrations along with various social events so that our members can become better acquainted and share ideas and to create a sense of community within its members. 

Desire / Ravage

DESIRE/Ravage is dedicated to enhancing BDSM education, with workshops and personalized mentoring throughout the weekend. It is a place for kinky Women, Genderqueer, Gender Variant/Expansive, and Trans Folx of all sexualities, identities, and presentations to socialize and connect with each other. Join us for our upcoming Munches and annual kinky paradise retreat.

Fetish Men San Diego

a brotherhood of gay kinky men. We are men who are into fetish gear and kinky play who want to learn and grow more. We are a group for leather & fetish men, leathermen, and kinky guys seeking brotherhood, support, connection, and knowledge. We embrace our masculinity and the eroticism of the gear. 

Honey's Ageplay Munch

We are a local North County/San Diego Ageplay munch that meets on the 4th Thursday of every month. Honey's Munch is a queer friendly, gender diverse group that promotes education about the Ageplay community and brings like minded kinksters interested in Ageplay together in a safe space.

Kinky Things

Kinky Things is an all-inclusive weekend "unconference" event based upon the idea that some of the most stimulating and constructive conversations occur in spur-of-the-moment pick up conversations. Kinky Things is an event built to harness the power of these kind of experiences.

MAsT

We are a pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationships. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.

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San Diego Bad Intentions

Bad intentions was started to continuously support the Southern California Femdom Community by providing a safe space for our parties. Our parties are quarterly with elaborate themes such as Moulin Rouge, Mythical goddess and woodland creatures, our ball in "Indecency in the regency". We also host monthly munches on every second Sunday.

San Diego Bears

Bears San Diego is a club for bears and bear fanciers. We are based in San Diego, California but we have members throughout the United States and even a few from overseas. Bears San Diego was established in San Diego in October 1994 when a need was recognized for a group who did not fit in with the mainstream gays.

SAN Bootblacks

SAN Bookblacks is a group of present and former bootblacks, as well as those interested in Bootblacking, or seeking a Bootblack. This group is for educating and mentoring up and coming bootblacks or gathering to socials, functions, and fundraisers where bootblacks may be needed.

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San Diego Leather Pride

San Diego Leather Pride is a 5 day festival celebrating the Leather community in America's Finest City, culminating in the yearly San Diego Bootblack, Ms, and Mr. San Diego Leather contest!

San Diego Pups & Trainers - SAN PAH

A community for Pups, Handlers and people curious about human pup play in Southern California.

Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence

The San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, The Asylum of the Tortured Heart, performs public service by educating the community on safety and health issues through outreach, promoting awareness through street theater, guiding spiritual enlightenment, abolishing bigotry and hatred and working to end stereotypes. The Asylum supports, works with, and raises funds for other charitable non-profit organizations.

Young but Kinky San Diego

A safe inclusive space for the 21-39 kinkster! Navigating through BDSM, kink or community can be confusing and daunting for the less experienced or brand new Kinkster so come join your kinky peers about how to navigate through it together!  We offer MUNCH-style bonfires, hikes, game nights, class, vetted only parties, and more, built and ran by a fellow kinkster Princess Nina!