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The San Diego Leather Realm is a gateway to help you find local organizations, clubs, and businesses that promote alternative lifestyles and we could not do what we do without the support of the local community and it members.
This page is designed to help you to see who supports our efforts in this community and help you to connect.
Please visit any of the listed websites to find out what they offer and how you can learn more.
All Tied Up San Diego brings a unique community offering interactive hybrid-online/in-person educational programs that helps progressive, open-minded individuals, and couples increase connection and communication, while learning how to tie or be tied.
Stop feeling like you have to learn on your own.
Start knowing your objectives and receive the feedback you need to create highly personal experiences.
Club X is a non-profit organization in California serving as an educational, charitable, and social group. Based in San Diego, Club X is composed of a very diverse group of people, all enjoying some area of a lifestyle involving Leather, SM or Fetish interests.
We are a pansexual fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community. We are actively working in our society to reduce prejudices about people's personal choices in life.
Desire encourages you to celebrate your sexuality and kink freely, while providing the education and inspiration you need to do so.
Typically, we transform our own private, clothing-optional resort into a kinky paradise, complete with dungeon equipment and unrestricted play. DESIRE is a player’s weekend with very few rules and our location allows for the types of play other spaces don’t, including fire and fluids.
Detoxxx Leather has been creating hand tailored customer leather clothing and accessories for over three decades. Our garments have been worn on stage at International Mr. Leather (IML) as well as other leather community events.
We bring that level of expertise and craftmanship to every garment we make for you. Contact us and our Alpha designer will begin work on tailoring customer gear you can wear with confidence and pride.
We carry only the finest quality leather and fetish goods, gym clothes, underwear, toys and furnishings, all designed to get you off and make you look good while you’re doing it. Great Gear for the bar, street and locker room, plus the best toys, restraints, lube and playroom equipment.
Everything we sell is crafted by other guys who play hard, just like you. It’s stuff we love because it’s stuff we use. And it’s the reason that we’re your favorite fetish store.
We are a Leather Family whose members each practice their own flavor of BDSM, sexual dynamics, and protocols. We are Leather Folk, Travelers, Volunteers, Players, Teachers, Students, Advocates and Allies. The Leather Community is full of hard-working volunteers. It is our pleasure to try and give back to the Community that has given us SO much.
Be a part of YOUR Community. Support your local Clubs, Events & Title Holders! We are better together!
7 THEMED ROOMS
• GLAM ROOM • BOUDOIR ROOM • BUBBLEGASM ROOM • NERDGASM ROOM • KINKY PLAY ROOM • BONDAGE ROOM * BLACK LIGHT ROOM
SOCIAL AREAS
• DANCE FLOOR • STRIPPER POLE • BAR • LOUNGE • PATIO
At JuxtaToys we've always loved working with salvaged items and finding a way to make them beautiful. Every opportunity to use a scrap in one of our pieces will be used to give it new life.
We have been crafting for over a decade, and one of our favorite things to do is create new and interesting toys that we've never seen before, and then to find the best pun when we're naming them. Our toys embody dad jokes...with a kick.
Our line includes Cuffs, Collars, Gags, Suspension Bars, Our Modular Bondage System, Paddles and the popular, often imitated but never equaled Grip Cuffs. Leather by Danny is committed to supporting the SM/Leather/Fetish community and does so through attendance at events and donations. View our website to learn more about our innovative line of bondage equipment.
Custom exotic hardwood and plastic kink implements (paddles, canes, knifes, etc) ranging from nerdy and cute to unique and hardcore. Handmade kink positive jewelry and accessories.
We cater to all facets of kink and bdsm providing cute and playful products all the way to extreme kink and bdsm types. All products are handmade and tested by us the owners.
We are honored to serve the San Diego Leather Community during our title year and are grateful for the opportunity to support The Leather Realm. We encourage you to be open with yourself, expand your knowledge, explore your curiosities, and embrace what makes you different.
As San Diego’s ONLY Leather bar,
The San Diego Eagle is open and ready to SERVE!
We are located in the heart of North Park at
3040 N Park Way, San Diego, CA 92104
Monday – Thursday 4:00 pm - 2:00 am
Friday – Sunday 2:00 pm – 2:00 am
A Long Beach resident since 2005, Steve MacIsaac’s comics explore contemporary gay culture, identity, and sexuality. MacIsaac has released six issues of his solo series SHIRTLIFTER as well as many comics anthologies, including BEST AMERICAN COMICS 2010 (Houghton Mifflin), BLOCKED (Little Red Bird), and ALPHABET (Stacked Deck Press). His 240 page graphic novel UNPACKING was collected by Seattle LGBT Comics publisher Northwest Press in 2018, and he is working on a new book under the working title SIN ATAJOS.
JimSupport: For the last 24 years, we’ve been making the world’s best sex furniture. It’s our single focus. We build it to last and use it ourselves. If creative and hot scenes are what you’re after, we’re here to provide support…JimSupport.
We build rugged gear that sets up fast when you’re horny and stores away easily when you’re not. Because you don’t have to own a dungeon to play like you do.
Join Dan and Renee as they share their deeply personal and transformative journey into the Kink Community. In their podcast, they open up about the challenges they've faced and the continuous self-discovery that has shaped their relationship over the past decade.
From navigating new experiences to embracing vulnerability, their story is a testament to the power of exploration and connection. Today, they lead one of the largest Shibari Rope Bondage groups in Southern California: All Tied Up San Diego.
Curious about the world of BDSM, Kink, or Leather? This podcast offers a fun and informative peek into their world, blending moments of laughter and tears with profound insights. Whether you're vanilla or adventurous, Dan and Renee's journey will inspire you to see how exploring new dimensions of intimacy and trust can transform your life.
Tune in and discover how being both vanilla and kinky can lead to personal growth and a deeper connection with yourself and your partner.
MAsT: San Diego is a pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationships. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.
Owner Steve Wendt has been working with Leather since 1989 and established Moose Leather in 1991. After leaving the trade for over 20 years, he's resurrected Moose Leather with an enthusiastic staff of leatherworkers and apprentices working to keep the trade alive!
The new Moose Leather is located on University Avenue in San Diego, CA and features custom-made chaps, vests, pants, shirts, harnesses and various Off-The-Rack items.
Off Kilter Kilts (and their new project, Off Kilter Kink) currently offer a wide selection of kilts (including many styles of leather) from Verillas, StumpTown and Sport Kilt, as well as all the accessories you could need, with a variety of price points and styles. Off Kilter Kilts is the only place a person can come to compare multiple brands and walk out that day with the perfect fit for them. Whether you’re looking for something for the bar, the dungeon, or a nice dinner out, OKK has you covered. Lengths ranging from as short as 12 inches to as long as 36 – show as much as you want to!
Restrained Grace offers handcrafted, high femme bondage gear, day collars, jewelry, and gifts for the BDSM and LGBTQ+ communities.
Shopping with us supports five families directly, instead of adding to a billionaire's Scrooge McDuckian pile of money. And we appreciate you for choosing to shop small!
All Tied Up San Diego
We bring a unique community offering interactive hybrid-online/in-person educational programs that helps progressive, open-minded individuals, and couples increase connection and communication, while learning how to tie or be tied.
CAPE - Caregiver & Age Player Events
We are a group based in San Diego, California that is dedicated to discussing, creating, and promoting all CG/l events for those interested in CG/l related activities. All Ageplayers, Diaper Lovers, Littles, Middles, Bigs, boys, girls, enbies, Caregivers, Mommies, Daddies, Aunties, Uncles, etc... with a genuine interest are welcome.
Club X San Diego
We are a pansexual fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community. Club X also meets monthly for educational workshops and demonstrations along with various social events so that our members can become better acquainted and share ideas and to create a sense of community within its members.
Desire / Ravage
DESIRE/Ravage is dedicated to enhancing BDSM education, with workshops and personalized mentoring throughout the weekend. It is a place for kinky Women, Genderqueer, Gender Variant/Expansive, and Trans Folx of all sexualities, identities, and presentations to socialize and connect with each other. Join us for our upcoming Munches and annual kinky paradise retreat.
Fetish Men San Diego
a brotherhood of gay kinky men. We are men who are into fetish gear and kinky play who want to learn and grow more. We are a group for leather & fetish men, leathermen, and kinky guys seeking brotherhood, support, connection, and knowledge. We embrace our masculinity and the eroticism of the gear.
Honey's Ageplay Munch
We are a local North County/San Diego Ageplay munch that meets on the 4th Thursday of every month. Honey's Munch is a queer friendly, gender diverse group that promotes education about the Ageplay community and brings like minded kinksters interested in Ageplay together in a safe space.
Kinky Things
Kinky Things is an all-inclusive weekend "unconference" event based upon the idea that some of the most stimulating and constructive conversations occur in spur-of-the-moment pick up conversations. Kinky Things is an event built to harness the power of these kind of experiences.
MAsT
We are a pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationships. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.
No Website
San Diego Bad Intentions
Bad intentions was started to continuously support the Southern California Femdom Community by providing a safe space for our parties. Our parties are quarterly with elaborate themes such as Moulin Rouge, Mythical goddess and woodland creatures, our ball in "Indecency in the regency". We also host monthly munches on every second Sunday.
San Diego Bears
Bears San Diego is a club for bears and bear fanciers. We are based in San Diego, California but we have members throughout the United States and even a few from overseas. Bears San Diego was established in San Diego in October 1994 when a need was recognized for a group who did not fit in with the mainstream gays.
SAN Bootblacks
SAN Bookblacks is a group of present and former bootblacks, as well as those interested in Bootblacking, or seeking a Bootblack. This group is for educating and mentoring up and coming bootblacks or gathering to socials, functions, and fundraisers where bootblacks may be needed.
No Website
San Diego Leather Pride
San Diego Leather Pride is a 5 day festival celebrating the Leather community in America's Finest City, culminating in the yearly San Diego Bootblack, Ms, and Mr. San Diego Leather contest!
San Diego Pups & Trainers - SAN PAH
A community for Pups, Handlers and people curious about human pup play in Southern California.
Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence
The San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, The Asylum of the Tortured Heart, performs public service by educating the community on safety and health issues through outreach, promoting awareness through street theater, guiding spiritual enlightenment, abolishing bigotry and hatred and working to end stereotypes. The Asylum supports, works with, and raises funds for other charitable non-profit organizations.
Young but Kinky San Diego
A safe inclusive space for the 21-39 kinkster! Navigating through BDSM, kink or community can be confusing and daunting for the less experienced or brand new Kinkster so come join your kinky peers about how to navigate through it together! We offer MUNCH-style bonfires, hikes, game nights, class, vetted only parties, and more, built and ran by a fellow kinkster Princess Nina!
All Tied Up San Diego
We bring a unique community offering interactive hybrid-online/in-person educational programs that helps progressive, open-minded individuals, and couples increase connection and communication, while learning how to tie or be tied.
CAPE - Caregiver & Age Player Events
We are a group based in San Diego, California that is dedicated to discussing, creating, and promoting all CG/l events for those interested in CG/l related activities. All Ageplayers, Diaper Lovers, Littles, Middles, Bigs, boys, girls, enbies, Caregivers, Mommies, Daddies, Aunties, Uncles, etc... with a genuine interest are welcome.
Club X San Diego
We are a pansexual fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community. Club X also meets monthly for educational workshops and demonstrations along with various social events so that our members can become better acquainted and share ideas and to create a sense of community within its members.
Desire / Ravage
DESIRE/Ravage is dedicated to enhancing BDSM education, with workshops and personalized mentoring throughout the weekend. It is a place for kinky Women, Genderqueer, Gender Variant/Expansive, and Trans Folx of all sexualities, identities, and presentations to socialize and connect with each other. Join us for our upcoming Munches and annual kinky paradise retreat.
Fetish Men San Diego
a brotherhood of gay kinky men. We are men who are into fetish gear and kinky play who want to learn and grow more. We are a group for leather & fetish men, leathermen, and kinky guys seeking brotherhood, support, connection, and knowledge. We embrace our masculinity and the eroticism of the gear.
Honey's Ageplay Munch
We are a local North County/San Diego Ageplay munch that meets on the 4th Thursday of every month. Honey's Munch is a queer friendly, gender diverse group that promotes education about the Ageplay community and brings like minded kinksters interested in Ageplay together in a safe space.
Kinky Things
Kinky Things is an all-inclusive weekend "unconference" event based upon the idea that some of the most stimulating and constructive conversations occur in spur-of-the-moment pick up conversations. Kinky Things is an event built to harness the power of these kind of experiences.
MAsT
We are a pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationships. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.
No Website
San Diego Bad Intentions
Bad intentions was started to continuously support the Southern California Femdom Community by providing a safe space for our parties. Our parties are quarterly with elaborate themes such as Moulin Rouge, Mythical goddess and woodland creatures, our ball in "Indecency in the regency". We also host monthly munches on every second Sunday.
San Diego Bears
Bears San Diego is a club for bears and bear fanciers. We are based in San Diego, California but we have members throughout the United States and even a few from overseas. Bears San Diego was established in San Diego in October 1994 when a need was recognized for a group who did not fit in with the mainstream gays.
SAN Bootblacks
SAN Bookblacks is a group of present and former bootblacks, as well as those interested in Bootblacking, or seeking a Bootblack. This group is for educating and mentoring up and coming bootblacks or gathering to socials, functions, and fundraisers where bootblacks may be needed.
No Website
San Diego Leather Pride
San Diego Leather Pride is a 5 day festival celebrating the Leather community in America's Finest City, culminating in the yearly San Diego Bootblack, Ms, and Mr. San Diego Leather contest!
San Diego Pups & Trainers - SAN PAH
A community for Pups, Handlers and people curious about human pup play in Southern California.
Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence
The San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, The Asylum of the Tortured Heart, performs public service by educating the community on safety and health issues through outreach, promoting awareness through street theater, guiding spiritual enlightenment, abolishing bigotry and hatred and working to end stereotypes. The Asylum supports, works with, and raises funds for other charitable non-profit organizations.
Young but Kinky San Diego
A safe inclusive space for the 21-39 kinkster! Navigating through BDSM, kink or community can be confusing and daunting for the less experienced or brand new Kinkster so come join your kinky peers about how to navigate through it together! We offer MUNCH-style bonfires, hikes, game nights, class, vetted only parties, and more, built and ran by a fellow kinkster Princess Nina!
All Tied Up San Diego
We bring a unique community offering interactive hybrid-online/in-person educational programs that helps progressive, open-minded individuals, and couples increase connection and communication, while learning how to tie or be tied.
CAPE - Caregiver & Age Player Events
We are a group based in San Diego, California that is dedicated to discussing, creating, and promoting all CG/l events for those interested in CG/l related activities. All Ageplayers, Diaper Lovers, Littles, Middles, Bigs, boys, girls, enbies, Caregivers, Mommies, Daddies, Aunties, Uncles, etc... with a genuine interest are welcome.
Club X San Diego
We are a pansexual fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community. Club X also meets monthly for educational workshops and demonstrations along with various social events so that our members can become better acquainted and share ideas and to create a sense of community within its members.
Desire / Ravage
DESIRE/Ravage is dedicated to enhancing BDSM education, with workshops and personalized mentoring throughout the weekend. It is a place for kinky Women, Genderqueer, Gender Variant/Expansive, and Trans Folx of all sexualities, identities, and presentations to socialize and connect with each other. Join us for our upcoming Munches and annual kinky paradise retreat.
Fetish Men San Diego
a brotherhood of gay kinky men. We are men who are into fetish gear and kinky play who want to learn and grow more. We are a group for leather & fetish men, leathermen, and kinky guys seeking brotherhood, support, connection, and knowledge. We embrace our masculinity and the eroticism of the gear.
Honey's Ageplay Munch
We are a local North County/San Diego Ageplay munch that meets on the 4th Thursday of every month. Honey's Munch is a queer friendly, gender diverse group that promotes education about the Ageplay community and brings like minded kinksters interested in Ageplay together in a safe space.
Kinky Things
Kinky Things is an all-inclusive weekend "unconference" event based upon the idea that some of the most stimulating and constructive conversations occur in spur-of-the-moment pick up conversations. Kinky Things is an event built to harness the power of these kind of experiences.
MAsT
We are a pansexual support and discussion group for those interested in Master-Mistress/slave, Dominant/submissive or Power Exchange relationships. Persons of any gender and sexual orientation are welcome.
No Website
San Diego Bad Intentions
Bad intentions was started to continuously support the Southern California Femdom Community by providing a safe space for our parties. Our parties are quarterly with elaborate themes such as Moulin Rouge, Mythical goddess and woodland creatures, our ball in "Indecency in the regency". We also host monthly munches on every second Sunday.
San Diego Bears
Bears San Diego is a club for bears and bear fanciers. We are based in San Diego, California but we have members throughout the United States and even a few from overseas. Bears San Diego was established in San Diego in October 1994 when a need was recognized for a group who did not fit in with the mainstream gays.
SAN Bootblacks
SAN Bookblacks is a group of present and former bootblacks, as well as those interested in Bootblacking, or seeking a Bootblack. This group is for educating and mentoring up and coming bootblacks or gathering to socials, functions, and fundraisers where bootblacks may be needed.
No Website
San Diego Leather Pride
San Diego Leather Pride is a 5 day festival celebrating the Leather community in America's Finest City, culminating in the yearly San Diego Bootblack, Ms, and Mr. San Diego Leather contest!
San Diego Pups & Trainers - SAN PAH
A community for Pups, Handlers and people curious about human pup play in Southern California.
Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence
The San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, The Asylum of the Tortured Heart, performs public service by educating the community on safety and health issues through outreach, promoting awareness through street theater, guiding spiritual enlightenment, abolishing bigotry and hatred and working to end stereotypes. The Asylum supports, works with, and raises funds for other charitable non-profit organizations.
Young but Kinky San Diego
A safe inclusive space for the 21-39 kinkster! Navigating through BDSM, kink or community can be confusing and daunting for the less experienced or brand new Kinkster so come join your kinky peers about how to navigate through it together! We offer MUNCH-style bonfires, hikes, game nights, class, vetted only parties, and more, built and ran by a fellow kinkster Princess Nina!