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Local Clubs & Organizations

Leather Realm serves as a gateway to connect people with the local clubs and organizations that best their individual needs and desires. The list below includes groups we are aware of and that are currently active. Its is by no means a complete list as the San Diego Community is very large and diverse. If you represent a club or organization not listed here and want it included please email us at sandiegoleatherrealm@gmail.com.



2024 Local Clubs

All Tied Up San Diego

All Tied Up San Diego

We bring a unique community offering  interactive hybrid-online/in-person educational programs that helps progressive, open-minded individuals, and couples increase connection and communication, while learning how to tie or be tied.

Club Safe Word

Club Safeword

A member's only club for sexually minded individuals who have an active involvement in the adult lifestyle. We host meet and greets and private play events that are more adult-oriented to experiment and explore a more inhibitious nature. We welcome newbies and veterans in this lifestyle to join in the fun.

Club X San Diego

We are a pansexual fun-loving, caring, well-adjusted, educated, focused, and dedicated organization serving our community. Club X also meets monthly for educational workshops and demonstrations along with various social events so that our members can become better acquainted and share ideas and to create a sense of community within its members. 

Desire / Ravage

DESIRE/Ravage is dedicated to enhancing BDSM education, with workshops and personalized mentoring throughout the weekend. It is a place for kinky Women, Genderqueer, Gender Variant/Expansive, and Trans Folx of all sexualities, identities, and presentations to socialize and connect with each other. Join us for our upcoming Munches and annual kinky paradise retreat.

Honey's Ageplay Munch

We are a local North County/San Diego Ageplay munch that meets on the 4th Thursday of every month. Honey's Munch is a queer friendly, gender diverse group that promotes education about the Ageplay community and brings like minded kinksters interested in Ageplay together in a safe space.

San Diego Bad Intentions

Bad intentions was started to continuously support the Southern California Femdom Community by providing a safe space for our parties. Our parties are quarterly with elaborate themes such as Moulin Rouge, Mythical goddess and woodland creatures, our ball in "Indecency in the regency". We also host monthly munches on every second Sunday.

San Diego Bears

San Diego Bears

Bears San Diego is a club for bears and bear fanciers. We are based in San Diego, California, but we have members throughout the United States, and even a few are from overseas. Join us at BearQuake 2024, October 17-20, celebrating 30 years of Community fun and service.

SAN Bootblacks

SAN Bookblacks is a group of present and former bootblacks, as well as those interested in Bootblacking, or seeking a Bootblack. This group is for educating and mentoring up and coming bootblacks or gathering to socials, functions, and fundraisers where bootblacks may be needed.

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San Diego Pups & Trainers - SAN PAH

A community for Pups, Handlers and people curious about human pup play in Southern California.

Young but Kinky San Diego

A safe inclusive space for the 21-39 kinkster! Navigating through BDSM, kink or community can be confusing and daunting for the less experienced or brand new Kinkster so come join your kinky peers about how to navigate through it together!  We offer MUNCH-style bonfires, hikes, game nights, class, vetted only parties, and more, built and ran by a fellow kinkster Princess Nina!